My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were only 15&16.. We've shared 13 years together and have an amazing 8 yr old boy. He's never proposed and I am basically like his roommate/servant now that I'm unable to work while I'm going through medical treatments. But for ten years, I supported our family soley. We had to leave Ohio to come to Cali for my Dr. I know he hates it here, but I love it and my son seems to as well. I am just tired of how he says he's going to leave In front of our son all the time. It really gets him worked up hearing his dad say he wants to leave.. I fear he would be out of our lives forever if he leaves and sometimes I think that'd be better than how it is now, but then I fear I would be alone forever.. He's all I've ever known and I just can't ever see me with someone else.. I need advice please...
Most Helpful Guy
Parent's problems should NEVER be discussed when children are present.
I have no words strong enough (and which can be used without risking a ban) to describe a man who abandons his wife and child when she's ill. Let's say -'the ultimate D-bag²-' .
You'll have problems, indeed. All MRA's here will tell you wives can rob their men of everything but that's 1950ies talk, no longer valid in 2015.
Cali in Columbia or California? California is a quite expensive place.0
Most Helpful Girl
I was with my ex-husband from 18 to 34. I thought I would be lost without him and be alone forever. Boy was I wrong! I was able to move on once I started dating and saw how men are suppose to treat a lady. I fell in love again deeper than I ever was with my ex. We parent my son together and that's it. If you want to do it and you know it's best for you then do it. If you are happy your son will be happy.1