this is his very first relationship, while I've had 2 before him.
- Break up
- Stay together
Most Helpful Guy
What have you done to help him with his depression and anxiety? What makes you think you didn't help or you can't do more?
Also, how does this effect your relationship? Does he want to feel better? Is he taking any steps in feeling better?
I think it may help you if you can up the level of communication with him so you can talk about what you miss, or which fun times you want more of. Likewise it may help him understand how his difficulties effect you.
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like you're staying for his sake and not because you really want to be with him. Otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question to begin with. But it doesn't sound like you're doing him a favour by staying since you're both fighting and not sorting your problems through/work to make your relationship better. Either way it can't stay the way it is now. Break up or work your problems out. Only you can know what to do