Most Helpful Girl
You are correct, you had strong feelings and she did not. She liked you and the attention she got from you but you are not what she wanted. (hence the fact she said she felt you were forcing/pushing her) To her you were a good guy. A guy she could (should) marry, but most likely it will be someone she is crazy about that treats her like trash.
The fact is we always want what we can't have its a challenge. It draws us in. You were not a challenge to her and so you didn't peek her interest that much. She likes you she does, but just not like you liked her and you wanted from her what she could never give you. She didn't want to hurt you but fully understands where you are coming from. No further contact is needed. she may contact you just to say hello, but only because she misses the friendship and the kind things you did. Not because she misses a relationship with you. Move on and find that one girl who will love you like you deserve.
Most Helpful Guy
sounds like a mess. if you want her then keep trying but if you don't really care much then just drop it.