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There is no easy way to "get over" a break up. Your heart was filled with hopes, fantasies, ideals, you were going to spend the rest of your lives together, you felt, deep down. There is no quick, easy, painless way of getting over that.
The best you can do is try and resist nonsensical, baseless emotions as they pummel your mind and heart, and look at the entire situation as logically as possible, sparing no mercies on your heart (Were you foolish? Good! Look it straight in the eye and realize what you did!) or allowing yourself to look at him with any sort of deceiving emotions. (Was he a dick, but you ignored it? Stop ignoring it!)