i've like this guy forever. we've been on 2 non-official dates, both of which I've initiated. he recently moved to canada (i'm in NY), and I still like him so we usually go on Facebook chat and talk, but I'm always the one initiating. he's coming back here for a few days in December, so I'm waiting to see if he'll initiate a date or I should just forget it. what do you think? should I give up hope?