So I've recently broken up with my girlfriend of 3 months. Due to unfortunate circumstances and some faults of my own. I had a bad case of depression and anxiety formed from life issues I had going on at the moment. This greatly effected my relationship. Although we were usually able to sort out disagreements. She suggested the break up was a good idea at this moment and I agreed due to or situation of a lot of time apart etc. so it was mutual. She has said she still wants me in her life and for us to be friends and if we were we to sort things out in the future she would like that. This girl did a lot for me in the shirt time period I had know her and been together with her. Even though it was one of my short relationships it was the most genuine. I still want us to be together in the future that's why I'm trying the no contact rule. I'm just curious to know though in doing this after wanting to remain friends should I not reply her at all if she texts me or contacts me before we have had sufficient time to heal after the breakup? just need some insight on this because I'm in a situation where she has texted me in the first couple days and I'm not quite sure what to do because I believe it may be best for a break for a little while for us to heal so we could think if we would like to get to together in the future
- Reply to any contact she gives before the 30 daysVote A
- Do not not contact it reply until 30 days have beenVote B
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My ex recently ended a 3 year relationship because of a 2 hour train journey. My situation is different to you. Everyone's situation is different.
I'm trying to do the no contact period rule too. Whether or not it works, I don't know. Apparently if she tries to text you, do NOT answer her unless certain circumstances arise. You could try going 21 days rather than 30, if you two think you can get back together.
It's after these days that count. That initial conversation to make amends slowly. How to do that? I'm not there yet.
Good Luck though.0