My girlfriend went to Hawaii with her rich girlfriend & met a guy there. They had drinks and hung out for 2 days. She claims they were just friends, but she gave the guy her number & found out he lived 30 minutes from her back in CA. After a fight which involved a lot of drinking, my gf decided it was a good idea to talk to this guy again. I grew suspicious of the way she was acting and hiding things on her phone and then I saw she deleted our anniversary on Facebook (which she said she didn't do), I had to find out what was up, so when she fell asleep I grabbed her phone and started looking through her text messages and pictures. I ended up finding some bad pictures of this guy almost completely nude as well as pictures of her too. I confronted her and she told me that she was talking with this guy and was confused. I told her we needed time apart, so she could gather her thoughts and figure out what she wanted. Found out few days later she went on a date with guy and the bar after. She was acting odd when she came back home, so I asked her questions and eventually she told me she saw this guy again, but nothing happened aside dinner/drinks. Few days later something was off again and I told her if she respected me at all to tell me everything that happened, because I knew she was lying/withholding information, so she told me that she went to the guys house afterwards and they made out for a good while, but she didn't have sex or give the guy a blowjob/handjob. It's hard for me to trust her, because she has been lying/witholding things several times in a few weeks, so how do I know if this is REALLY the truth. I asked her I wanted to talk to this guy and ask him if anything else happened as I believe he would have no reason to lie and might not even know that I exist yet she refuses to do so, because she says that is weird/immature, but I feel like it is the only way I can know for certain and truly trust her again otherwise I will probably be breaking it off.
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Get someone better, if they cheat no matter the excuse they don't really love you.2