He stopped sleeping with me in November after a holiday with his uni mates.
Should i just pack my bags and go to my mum and dads now?
We live in a house his parents bought him.
I spoke to my sister and best friend they have said it doesn't come as a surprise as he stopped goin out with me and stopped coming to my family events. They both said they had been worried about me for some time after they saw his attitude towards me in the past few months.
Im falling into a pit of despair with no way out need help fast.
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I think it is best to create some distance and space between you and him for now. I find it a little odd that he wants to wait for a month and then break things off if his feelings haven't changed. Does he actively do anything to work on the issue, or is he basically just passively waiting for four weeks to see what (if anything) happens? It just seems pretty unfair and cruel to me to put this sword of Damocles over your head and say that in a month maybe the sword will drop. This is the main reason why I think you should be with people who care about you. It's mainly for you and your own good, but also so that he gets a chance to think about things. I don't think he'll be able to think about it if you're there. Maybe he needs to miss you to realise what he wants. Although I'd personally be scared and lose a lot if not all of my trust if someone put me through this.