Please help me figure out why he broke up with me?

Sorry for the repeat post but I wanted to add post-breakup info...

1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year
2) We're teens
3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said that we could still be friends
4) He seemed VERY INTO ME until one week prior to the break up, when he was a little less physically affectionate and didn't see me quite as often (but that could be because of parental intervention--see 9).
5) Up until MINUTES before the break up he texted me ALL throughout the day (as he always did after we started dating) asking about my opinions, interests, what I was up to, giving me updates about his life, saying good night, etc.
6) I was recovering from surgery... so maybe he just texted all the time because he felt bad for me? We discussed many other things beyond how I was recovering though
7) He bought me flowers about a week before the break up due to my injury
8) He always kept up with doing me little favors/being a gentleman
9) One of his parents (who he is VERY close to/who he allows to control nearly his ENTIRE life) made it clear they did not like him dating. They wouldn't allow us to be completely alone together.
10) He is very passive and aims to please his parents first and foremost
11) I was his first gf. As far as I know he hasn't dated in the months since.
12) I said I couldn't be friends for a while because I didn't trust him. He sent the last text saying he was sorry, and neither one of us has initiated contact since.
13) After, he didn't help me with my injury, but acted like a polite stranger up until last month. Now, he acts like I don't exist.
14) I've actively avoided him, making sure he was uninvited from a gathering of mutual friends.

Why do you think he broke up with me? Please be honest. Thank you!
  • Lost feelings/got bored with me
    Vote A
  • Not ready for a relationship
    Vote B
  • Parent made him end it
    Vote C
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Three votes isn't a lot to go off of. Can more people please vote?
Thank you to all who voted so far! Any more opinions?

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  • I think he needs time to see exactly what he left. .. and why he left. Until this is clearly addressed you should just be the strong female you are and keep your head up. I know it's not much but feelings and emotions are completely complicated and you have to sit on them.. heal... then you will have clarity. Goodluck

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