My ex broke up with sometime at mid October because she got crush on another guy at her graduate University which she started at the beginning of October. She has been casually seeing this guy until mid-December from when they started officially dating. Well they didn’t see each other during the Christmas holidays but after they returned from the break they have been together since.
Timeline of my relationship with her:
We met 2010 September
Started dating 2011 February
First Break up 2011 September
Got back together 2011 January
Broke up 2014 January because I pissed her off when I got a bit unstable with other issues.
2014 February – Got back together after I sorted everything and took her on an epic Valentine's date.
August 2014 – She said she was going a bit off me because of what happened in January (we had a bit of long distance since July 1st); I saw her at the end of the month and somewhat rekindled everything.)
September 2014 – She returned to the same city I am in. We then decide to move cities and start her graduate school.
October 2014 (week1) – She moves to the new city.
October 2014 (week 2) – She tells me she has a crush on someone else.
October 2014 (week 3) – She breaks up with me
November 2014 (week 1) – I move to the new city to start my new job. (Moved a month later than her because I had to tie up loose ends where I was).
November 2014 (week 2) – Visits her uninvited…things don’t go so well.
November 2014 (week 4) – Bumps into her and the guy she has a crush on. Things don’t go so well. I hung out with her a bit the next day after begging to…it was okish, she was unpleased about it. I start No Contact immediately after.
December 2014 (week 3) - Breaks No contact after approximately 18 days. She hooks up with her crush. Christmas holidays starts 2 days later so they went on 2 dates before the break. They kept in touch throughout the holidays.
- She will not comebackVote A
- She might comebackVote B
Jan 2014 (week 2) – Her exams started. Ended mid-week and they have been dating almost every day since.
We were everything to each other before we broke up but now we are nothing.
We used to be in the same course and lived in the same halls until summer 2013.
Her new bf is in the same course as her now.
I tried to include as much as details as possible.
Thank you for taking your time to read through it :)
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn't sound like she'll be back, but even if she does this does not sound like a stable relationship and the two of you don't seem compatible. An on and off relationship is a bad sign, especially since your first break up was before the two of you had even been together a year. You should see this as a way out to meet someone that you fit better together with0