I've known this girl for a year and a half, she has a boy whos about to turn 4, i was there for her when she had no friends, i was there for her when her mom passed away. I love her and a month ago she started getting distant i figured it was because she had exams and it was Christmas and she was trying to spend time with her family. But then she broke up with me out of the blue. She said she still loved me and cares about me and wants me as a friend but it hurts. I miss her, i miss her kid. I haven't seen them both in a while and we haven't been talking, she's talking to me less and less. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship she didn't want to be caged or owned. She recently got new friends and she wanted to hang out with them and whenever she tried to talk to me i'd get angry. but what would she have lost if i had gotten angry if she has talked to me about this? Instead she just broke up with me and has been cold to me. What do i do. I was planning to marry her and i wanted to be the father of her kid. Did she just want to go have sex with other people party and drink? Im at a complete loss how do i get her back?
She broke up with me because she "doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore"?
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she's partying and sleep with other people what more u want to forget her and move on?0
"She said she didn't want to be in a relationship she didn't want to be caged or owned."
Sounds like you were smothering her. Possibly by being way too clingy and over-possessive.
"whenever she tried to talk to me i'd get angry."
What about? That she had a life outside of you?
"Did she just want to go have sex with other people party and drink?"
In other words, are you asking if you were right to try and control everything she said and did?1
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