if you are the dumpee and you read this , it is confusing it makes you think that you should try to go back to her, but if she dumped you... then what? it's a test?
Whereas if you dump her and she comes back, is it you that is testing now.
This statement is a kunundrum
I was recently dumped and left wondering should I try and go back so she knows, but then I would look weak and probably annoy her and push her further away. OR is the statement saying that because I love her I should let her go from my heart even though she was the dumper? and if she tries to get me back then it's love?
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Exactly. If you love her, but she feels like she needs to leave you, let her go. If she comes back, then it was meant to be.