I broke up w him, again, we were together for years. I am talking to him very slowly now. But he never puts in much effort. How can I have him come towards me when I was always the one pushing the relationship along? ... He mentioned today, "your friend" when referring to himself. It bothers me bc I want to be together again but I do not want to feel like I am taken for granted anymore. Any advice on how to have a guy come back and "chase" me again instead of I him? This guy is so passive I feel like I'm the only one ever trying. Thanks.
Most Helpful Guy
Can't force him to chase you. That's something he has to want to do. Even worse when dealing with a passive person cause it feels like trying to push a boulder. Instead of pushing the boulder let it roll down the hill on its own1
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn't sound like he's ever gonna chase you again /:0