Why can't some people be friends with their ex? My ex and I dated for 4 years. During most of college. I was her first love and first sexual partner. We broke up about 2 years ago. Every blue moon we would contact each other and see how each other are doing. We both dated people since our breakup, but it seems soon as we start becoming friends she pulls a 180 and says "I need to stop, I tried to be your friend but I can't." Then disappears all Over again. My question is: why does she do that? Why can't some people be friends? I find it easy.
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Because and ex lover has no place in your life if you want to have a new lover. Trying to be friends with a lover happena for two reasons, you aren't over them and want to keep them around incase something else can happen, or you have so little options for friends that you'll take what you can get, including an ex. It's better to leave failed relationships in the past and it's more respectful to present or future partners to never make them deal with an ex.0