Why can't some people be friends with their ex? My ex and I dated for 4 years. During most of college. I was her first love and first sexual partner. We broke up about 2 years ago. Every blue moon we would contact each other and see how each other are doing. We both dated people since our breakup, but it seems soon as we start becoming friends she pulls a 180 and says "I need to stop, I tried to be your friend but I can't." Then disappears all Over again. My question is: why does she do that? Why can't some people be friends? I find it easy.
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Old feelings my friend, thats just how it is. If you loved someone with a fiery passion and things went south, its hard to be friends knowing that either of you may want something more.
If you both have no feelings anymore then yes you can be friends. Me one of the exes are friends even though I dumped her and only lasted for like a month. But she hits me up first and I talk back but we both know nothing more will happen.
But my current ex who was my first real love dumped me, and honestly I don't know If I could be friends down the road, for I do not want to see her with another guy, so she most likely won't be a friend down the road.0