I'm 17 Years old and I'm a female.
I don't want to give you the worlds largest story ever of my pointless life story's about how stupendous my relationships have been. But basically this guy. He says all these sweet romantic things to me and my heart doesn't even flutter. Doesn't do it to the movies I used to either. And recently when I go to college I just want to be alone and listen to music, what's going on with me? Why do I want to be alone and cry. Why doesn't my heart react to anything that makes me get butterfly's?
Most Helpful Guy
Look you obviously have been hurt in a relationship right? Thats normal, we all sooner or later get hurt. Hell my current ex was hurt by her ex bf, and you know what she was depressed until she met the right guy. That guy was me, and trust me I did so many things to mend her heart back together, and over time she opened up to me and finally she gave me her all. But I was that guy who showed her that there are still wonderful people out there, I showed her so much even when she was at her lowest point.
Even though a good eleven months later she was confused who she wanted and went back to her ex, was I hurt yes. But I knew deep down I was that one guy to make her fell better, and help her through her depression. I have never hurt her in the time we spent, All i know is I forgive her and hold no anger or grudge cause in the end I did nothing wrong and I was committed and that shows you I have a strong character.
The only way to get over depression is to heal yourself meaning spirit and mind, and go back out there and try again. You have a guy who is opening up to you, we don't know if it genuine or fake but non the less he is putting effort in. If you like him try putting effort to, and see where it takes you, but being depressed won't help you heal and move on with any problems that you currently have.
Maybe you need to be alone for a little longer till you are confident to mingle, good luck.
Most Helpful Girl
Ah, I'm 22 and I still don't have an answer to this.