Most Helpful Girl
So,? Age didn't matter plus when you guys decided to break up you and her were free to choose someone again if she moved on fat that's none of your business since you were not together when she met him
Most Helpful Guy
Here are my thoughts... a lot of women are lying, manipulative, pieces of shit. They want what they want and will do what they want to do, always. However they might agree to a stipulation like you two had because a) it keeps you on the back burner in case what they are looking at doesn't work out and b) because it keeps them from looking like a whore until they are ready to commit to the next relationship.
I broke up with my ex a week after we took break, keep in mind we have a 3 year old son together. We agreed to 30 days to work on ourselves but after a week of seeing how she was treating me, etc I knew that she was playing me. So I did the only respectable thing I could at that point and broke up with her.
Looking back I remember about a month or two before she had told me she thought she might want to be single for a while, needed space, etc. Like a true beta I told her I would do whatever I could to save the relationship and when she stayed I thought I had saved it. In hindsight she was probably already talking to someone else and just didn't want to look like a whore with me in the picture. Once things got stronger between them she asked for this break, again so she could save face.
When someone wants to break up you just gotta do it. Lesson learned. They don't care about you anymore and they probably are ready to move on to someone else. No point in setting time tables or whatever. It is what it.
Take solace in the fact though that most rebound relationships never work out, especially those where cheating was involved. Karma is a motherfucker and the pain you feel for what she did to you will eventually come back on her.
We knew we should have ended ours a long time ago and we can only be mad at ourselves for trying to preserve something that wasn't going to last. We probably saw all the signs but chose to ignore. Denial is a motherfucker.