Most Helpful Girl
Like you say, it's still early days so you shouldn't be too hard on yourself for still thinking about her. But then again, I totally understand that you want the paranoid thoughts gone. I think that not talking to her is a step in the right direction. Being friends with an ex can only happen once you're entirely over them (and at that point you generally no longer have an interest in being friends with them). I've tried being friends with an ex immediately after the break-up and it was very hard to move on and it took me ages. Cut all contact. Don't look her up on social media, and try to avoid places where you're likely to bump into her.
Try to keep busy, be it with friends or with some hobby. I'm not sure if I'd recommend talking to other girls because 1. you're obviously not ready for something new and 2. as you say, it makes you feel down all over again when they don't respond. I just don't think it's good for you to put your happiness into other people's hands just yet.
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Most Helpful Guy
#1 Go to a night club (Dress nicely)
#2 Get a girl
#3 Contact your ex
#4 Ask her if she has a new bf
- if she has a new bf arrange a double date and show her that your girl is better than her
-if she doesn't send her a pic of you and your gf and that will make her jealous
-WARNING!!! She will either come back to you or hate you for the rest of your life! 😊😊😊