My ex sent me voice mails (at the time she was my girlfriend) saying how I am so awesome, smart, handsome, and she is going to be waiting at home for me and can't wait. It makes me feel good. Not that I have low self esteem but the dating world is surprisingly tough and so is work. So it makes me feel better.
I still have problems getting over her.
Most Helpful Girl
Absolutely! You ever heard of the term ‘Out of sight, out of mind.’ ? It’s true. Subtract any reminder of your ex from your mind and it makes your ability to move forward without longing for them SO much easier.
Break-ups are tough, but the only way to heal is to embrace that person’s absence. You do this by deleting/blocking them from any social media (Twitter, Facebook, Instagram), delete their number *something about seeing their name has a psychological trigger*, and do not engage their attempts to stay in your life. This is how life’s beauty starts to reclaim the center stage in your mind. If you wanna get over your ex, you have to totally get them off of your radar so that you can genuinely focus on new things. Close the lines of communication and get rid of things that make you miss them.0
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Most Helpful Guy
It happens man. There's nothing wrong with looking back and seeing how great it was though. I still think about that girl from time to time and wonder how she's doing. But never will I contact her0