Okay so me an my ex husband was together for a long time then got a divorce because we grew apart. Last year I was in a really bad place and out of no where he showed up and was talking about us getting back together but because I was in such a bad way it didn't work out. However since then I have gotten my life a little together and kinda wish i would have taken the chance to fix something that i had offten wondered how it could have been diffrent but until today i didn't know where he was. Now that I know where he is and how to contact him I can't help but wonder if i should go see him or not.
Should I go visit him?
What Guys Said 1
I would and take things slow, you and he broke up for a reason or reasons, and not all of it was your fault or his, try and see the situation from an objective point of view and commit to making things as well as yourselves better. Getting back together just because you two maybe lonely or think you made a mistake by being apart may not lead to something long term especially if the same challenges are still there on either side. Hope this helps. :)0
What Girls Said 1
Sure. I would call him or soemthing and ask him to lunch/dinner at a palce he likes and say it's on you. If you want to try again with him you should let him know and respect his decision if he doesn't feel the same.0
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