NOTE: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a month and a half now.
My girlfriend told me today that she is not sure whether or not she wants to break up or not. She tells me that I am literally the perfect guy and that she is really attracted to me as well and that I make her feel special.
However she says that she feels like she doesn't do enough for me (which is wrong if you ask me). Like she doesn't talk to me enough because she has a lot of homework and that she is in the school play. She also thinks that I take the relationship to seriously. Also she doesn't like that I am overly chivalrous because she is a independent person.
She told me that she is going to think this over because I told her that I believe that she is over reacting to all of this, (because this is her first relationship and doesn't know what to do). So I want to know if there is anything I can do to make her stay with me?
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Ok what you need to so is really talk to her about it. My ex broke up with me for that reason. If you really like her, which it sounds like you do, then tell her that you don't care if you only get a second per day together as long as you two are together.
You write that she told you that she consider breaking up with you. Be careful with her. She sounds like a girl i liked once. She said she didn't like me after 3 months of consideration. She wanted me to keep writing and telling her how beautiful she is. And when i found another after 6 months she told me she LOVED me. All that just to make me keep writing that she is beautiful. What i'm trying to say is that she could be a girl that wants attention so bad that she can hurt you to get what she wants. It sounds like she wanted a reaction. She wants you to tell her she is everything in your life. But she could also be a very good girl for telling you that she consider breaking up with you because she wants to solve the problem and not break up. Be careful with that girl anyway.1