So me and my ex dated 2013 an he ended it after 3 months or so. It was LDR he lived 5 hours away an i would travel to see him. I met his mother and family. They all liked me.
I stayed at their family home. Me and my ex had chemistry and banter i was crazy about him. He broke my heart when he ended it an i was emotionally destroyed. I guess when we stopped talking i resented him pushing me out.
An over time dated others an moved on as you do. I am not sure he ever did an i feel because i didn't have sex with him he didn't have his needs fulfilled. I believe he let me go for his own selfish but kind of valid reason.
I didn't think i still loved him but i think a part of me always will. We was young when we dated me 19 him 22. We didn't know what we wanted.
Then at end of 2014 out of the blue he messages me saying shan.. An it seemed like he regrets ending it but he didn't say it. Guess its a guy thing. He was asking if i am taken and talked about being friends but travelling down to take me for
An when we dated he didn't have his life together but he was saying he drives now etc. Like he wanted me to be impressed he kept saying be honest did you ever get over me. I said yeah it's like you can't believe it. He said no i can.
He also apologised for the past he then wanted my number an it all. got bit too much as i was emotional an i had bf back in December. That ended an he has crossed my mind a lot although i hate to admit it cus he hurt me.
I said no to having number he seemed upset but i couldn't betray someone an i was just so shocked to hear from him. Not spoke in few weeks, just not sure if he deserves me after everything but i do care for him :(
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Taking your ex back just leads to second guessing yourself and your feelings get hurt. I wouldn't take him back if he was the one who ended it. If you go back to him you are just going to get hurt. I would distance myself from him and don't talk to him at all. If you afraid of going back to him or you don't know which way to go then think do you really want to go through all that nonsense again? Or at least go with your gut because I didn't and I really wish I did. And sometimes your gut is right. Don't ever be afraid to walk away from someone who doesn't treat you right or doesn't deserve you. He probably just wants to string you along and just click your buttons. Does he care for you like you care for him? Maybe he doesn't deserve you. He probably just loves the benefits of having you in his life. I would be careful with him, if you don't' want to get attach then distance yourself from him, act like he doesn't exist.1
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