Actions speak louder than words. Just observe and you'll learn a lot about a person. I've learned to stop putting effort into things that don't make an effort. You just realized you're wasting your time. People do what they wanna do. You learn to take an L and keep it moving. Sometimes you just get tired of trying, being disrespected, being lied too, being played and paying for someone else mistakes.
Most Helpful Guy
no. Sounds like a quitter. Just because someone is not giving ever does it mean you don't put forth effort you just might teach that person a lesson, they just might take a little longer to understand things that you understand. That's just one of a million things and makes us all so different but the same. I'm very hard of hearing so to me actions definitely speak louder than words. And in knowing this is also taught me to be very patient.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Yes, and you don't sound like a quitter. Putting up with BS doesn't make you patient, it makes you submissive. I spent 2 years of my life wasting time on a guy who said he would change but never did, so yes actions speak louder than words. Life is to short to wasted on things you don't want to spend time on.0