Next weekend I'm attending a wedding of my and my ex boyfriend's mutual friend and I know I'll see him again at the ceremony. He broke up with me in a really rude way after 3-month-relationship and I didn't want to see him ever again so we haven't spoken since March last year. I don't want him back, but there's a great chance we will cross paths on this event and I'd like to act all cool and casual and not to be rude to him like he was to me. I'm afraid I'd be cynical because I tend to act this way with the people who hurt me, but I just need to act as if nothing happened and as if we weren't in a relationship at all. So how do I do this?
How to act cool with an ex if you don't want him back at all?
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You don't bring up your relationship at all. It's hard to hold back your anger, but push the thoughts back and act strong. Showing him that you don't care at all and that you've completely moved on, will show him that you are a strong woman who doesn't care about his harsh breakup with you. If you end up talking, keep it simple and kill him with kindness.0
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