Hello. I need some opinions even though I think I know what the most of you say. To make a long story short I began having an affair with a married high school friend that I haven't seen in 26 years. We would meet once a week. One day after "hanging out together" he called and said his wife found all the text messages and everything was out in the opening. After a few days he called and said he wanted to work on his marriage for the kids (always the kids). I said okay even though it hurt and non thinking about him non-stop. Only about 4 days later he called and said he misses me and wants to talk. I had a 10 minute conversation with him and he said he can't leave his wife but he does have feelings for me. Once again I said "OK". The emails are now coming in and he wants to meet for a real goodbye. I don't want to but I have the desire to. I know I should let it go but its so freakin' hard. Has anyone else there in a similar situation? I don't need to be bashed on here. Just need some advice about moving on.
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This is where you need to see the situation for what it is. He won't leave his wife, he doesn't respect or value either of you. He is a pathetic, decietful bastard and you didn't respect his marriage. Start making better choices and start right now, don't talk to him, don't meet up for a "goodbye" sex session, be a better person than you have been.1
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