Most Helpful Guy
Aaaand i get to be the bad guy becaues i argue against premarital sex. Anyway, i made my point lemme come to your situation; i don't see it hapenning. However, there is a baby involved, so get you elderly men of your family to beat up your lovely boyfriend until he comes back. Poor little baby.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm so sorry this happened to you, darling, this must be such a hard time for you. I don't think you /should/ get back with him, even if you can; he abandoned you when you needed him most! He's selfish and a coward, running away from his responsibilities! (Wait, how old is he?) And, like, you are only 21 yourself.. I mean.. we're basically the same age? You're a year older than me at most, but I couldn't begin to imagine getting pregnant and being a mother right now; I'm barely a functional adult enough as it is, providing for myself<33 This is tough, and depression is hellish, aswell.
Don't give up, keep going, surround yourself w/positivity and support and your loved ones. Concentrate on giving yr baby the best upbringing you can, forget this selfish loser!
I don't know much about it, but make sure he provides financially for the child.. child support, and that. He may be emotionally absent, but money is the least he can do.
Argh, I'm mad at him, for you! I'm sorry. My heart goes out to you and this tough time.