I dated this guy who was quite a bit older then I for abut 3 months. I know it's not that long of time, but I really fell hard for him. We had the most amazing time each time we were together. Decided to go for a mini vacation, but 2-3 days before that he started to tell me that he feels confused and thinks he may still have feelings for his ex. I asked if it's a good idea to go away together since that was the case, and he encouraged me saying that yes, we just need to go away (he had a convention to attend). We went, and everything was awkward from the get go. That first day we slept in different beds, no hands holdin- nothing. Next morning, 5 am phone rang and it was his ex. They talked on the phone as if I wasn't there, and it crushed me to pieces. We were there for the next 3 days, barely talking to each other, and since we came back we haven't talked to each other, no texts other than me telling him how much he hurt me. Now knowing all this, and how sh*tty he went about it all, why am I still miserable and sad. Why can't I let go and get over it. It's been 3 weeks since then and I am at the same spot where I was back then. When will I get better.
How to get over this?
What Guys Said 1
Ya know... I fell hard after only three months and got dumped too.. It can happen. I went no contact.. Its hard but i think its the only choice.. You dont want to become his part time play thing.. We have to love ourselves more than someone who treats us poorly.. Go out and date others.. Even if u dont feel that spark, you will realize that other guys will appreciate you.. The even better " right one" will come along... Stay strong..0
What Girls Said 1
Its still fresh. Give it time.0
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