Most Helpful Guy
For some reason you are able to get over people quicker than others. For me it is usually easy to get over people because there is no use to wasting your time and energy on someone who doesn't want to give you a chance or whatever the situation is. But I will say the last crush I had did take me a bit longer than usually just because this girl was completely different from anyone I met. She was very sweet, and I truly believe she was a great person. And I told her I wanted to get to know her better and how I felt, I believe I took her by surprise as she didn't really know what to say. And slowly I started to see she was just being nice to me and not really interested in me. Which bothered me because I know she thought of me as a great guy, but there was obviously something she didn't like.
But for your buddy/friend should really just take a high road and do what is right which is let her live her life with her family and just focus on something else. It isn't fair for the guy and her to have to deal with this. I just think he regrets not taking the chance and letting her know how he feels. Hopefully your friend choose to do the right thing and let her go.
Most Helpful Girl
He needs to step back and let her get on with her life, he had his chance and now she is married and having a baby he now wants her that is wrong he could cause this family to break up,