It doesn't even make any sense how much I hate her after this long.
how do you forgive people?
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It's hard to do. It depends on how long you were together and how serious it was too. Obviously if you say it no longer makes sense I am guessing it was a long time and you were serious enough.
I had someone I hated for years, not the same reason but I was angry for a long time. I eventually learned that the hate was just eating at me. This person did not even know I hated them. You can forgive and not forget. It's still hard to do but things can become easier.1