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Nope in my book. They who cheat deserves the favor returned.
So you are angry about them cheating on you and view it as wrong but then you... uhm... go and do the exact same thing. That makes no sense and is delusional. You're just as bad as the other person then for doing it. Besides there are better ways to take revenge... like not being immature and just leaving them behind.
Yes, it's petty and immature. If someone is upset that their partner cheated then they should either break up or if they're going to stay together, that person should be mature and work together with their partner to move past it.
You don't really hurt the cheater, though. I doubt that they really care, most of the time. I'm pretty sure they think it's funny that they were capable of affecting you so much, that you'd actually want to stoop down to their level and try to hurt them back.
You mainly just prove to them that they hurt you and that you care way too much about them. That's more of a compliment than anything else, to a cheater.
i think cheating for any reason is stupid. u know what? say one even tried to do this. i can guarantee that within their heart of hearts, they wouldn't even feel the satisfaction they were aiming for.
u also said 'to hurt the cheater'... so they've already hurt u first. dont make it worse by doing something stupid. just breathe, get ur game together, be a man and move on from that toxic situation.
Revenge is alllowing the person who hurt you watch you suffer. I wouldn't give anyone that satisfaction. The best revenge is moving on, to show the person you are much happier now they aren' t in your life.
"Weak people revenge, strong forgive, but
intelligent people are silent"
I think revenge in general is just a waste of time. You're not hurting anybody but yourself in the end. If someone cheated on you, cheating with someone else just proves that you are willing to stoop down to that persons level to prove a point. It makes you look like a real wuss.
Sacrifice you integrity to make a point? I find it childish. Do do something I don't like and I so it right back? Um.. yea.. no. Someone down the line will cheat on them and karma will have done it's job. I had an ex completely invalidate me EVERYTHING. So when we broke up and I heard he was dating a doctor he told me how she dismantled every positive thought he had about himself. I had to chuckle. Now he knows what that shit feels like.
i know what you're tlkin about, I've been cheated on before and i wanted to take revenge but pretty much if you did that, you're just as bad as the person who cheated. cheating is never the answerrr! :)
If someone cheats, you break up with them. What's the point of staying in a relationship where all you do is hurt each other? Both kinds of cheating are bad.
It's a bad idea trust me you will only end you feeling worse. Holding on to anger and hate when a relationship goes wrong and wanting revenge. But the only person that will suffer even more is you.
revenge in itself is very bad. cheating out of revenge is very bad. if you are in a relationship , put your ego's aside, ego's gives you boost to take revenge which destroys your relationship. is that what you want, to suffer, to cry, to regret. if so then gladly take revenge, if not then shut the fuck up and talk it out. if you feel its not gonna work out then break it up. dont degrade yourself by sleeping with some stranger just to get back to him. its not you. think of your standard. you are not a cheater. cheaters rot in hell.
i think it is a silly behaviour
u r spending ur energy plotting all this, i rather u break off with the girl then to have ur time spend on a foe
LITERALLY ALL CHEATING IS BAD.
You're sinking to her level if you do that. The best revenge is to dump her and find someone better, cold blooded. Just because she broke the rules that doesn't mean you should. Stay true to your principles. Being cheated on is horrible and yes you want revenge so bad, but revenge will only prove that a whore got the best of you.
yes I think it's bad if not worst than the initial cheating... it's just a character issue in my opinion. why stay with someone just to hurt them for hurting you. just break up with the person and maintain your high character rather than stooping to someone else's level
Did you stay with the cheater? Because if so, than getting back at them to hurt them is wrong. Not that what they did is ok, but if you genuinely want to still be together you'd work through the issues instead of getting petty revenge. If you're focus is sleeping with someone else to hurt them then you shouldn't be staying together anyway
better to just leave and let them wallow in realizing what they lost.
I'm not big into revenge, aside from the fact that cheating doesn't make one into a very bad person.
why would you stay with someone who cheated in the first place?
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