Well 4 days ago he broke up with me but I sorta initiated it due to a misunderstanding and then I told him I stilled loved him and wanted to be with him. He said he needed time to think. So two days later I get a text and he says "I need to get myself together" "I don't love you" "And I don't want to be with you" and I responded back "I understand" "Why would you say you loved me if you didn't and you said you'd never hurt me but you did, but I still love you and I respect your decision and wish you nothing but the best in life K" and he never responded.
Well today at 1 am he texts "U awake" and I text back 20 mins later with "yeah" and he tells me "sorry for being an asshole" "I know you probably hate me but I'm lost" and I said "I dont hate you, but I was hurt more than anything"
He then calls me 10 mins later to say he does love me and but he goes back and forth telling me he does and doesn't and then says its up to you but when I asked what do you mean he played it off and wouldn't explain and then he said he loved me but didn't know what to do to me and also I told him I would never see him again and he said "Yes you will". He hung up on me like 3 times and the last one I told him I loved him and he kept saying "No you don't" and hung up and I tried calling but he wouldn't answer so I texted him "I guess this is goodbye" "Well I hope you find happiness and in life Goodbye Love" he never responded back but I deleted the texts and his number again.
What is he trying to do to me?
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He is toying with you. He wants to string you along. My ex did the same thing when we were about to get divorced. I wanted to work things out, then found out he got another woman pregnant. He kept saying he loved me and then cheated again.
He wants to feel in control. My ex would text me trying to make me feel sorry for him if his car broke down or if he (supposedly) was sleeping in his car. When our court date came up he told me "well you get your wish" I didn't respond. 5 minutes later he says "wow must be nice to know it's true".
Don't let this guy control your emotions. All it will do is mess with your head and heart. It almost sounds like he wants to ruin you for anyone else emotionally.0