I don't understand it. My friend did this to his ex a couple days after she told him she was in love with him (and he said it back). He did it right after he promised to never leave her, etc. And he left her to chase after a girl who already has a bf, saying he hopes this new girl will LEARN to love him!!
He says he doesn't get why she hates him for it. I can't believe he doesn't get how heartbroken she is!!!
I'm gonna show him these answers, so if you would, please give your opinion on this or explain to him why she's so hurt. thanks!
Most Helpful Girl
I mean this politely... what a prick.
1. Any emotional attachment hurts when one leaves... especially right after he says he'll never leave her.
2. Leaving someone for someone who already has a boyfriend is double asshole, I mean... he now has placed pressure on two women as well as a third party (boyfriend) what a horrible character does that to people he 'cares for.'
I'm literally in disbelief this is all I want to type incase I use worse language.
Nice of you to post this to help him see... this is absolutely incredible.2
Most Helpful Guy
Although i'm not a girl I'm still going to comment on this.
The guy sounds like a dick. Sounds like he's the one who needs to "learn" how to love. I'm grumpmy today so i'm going to go as far as saying that you shouldn't even be friends with the guy. He sounds like he is only doing things for himself and is fine with abusing other people's feelings3