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I actually don't believe there is a way to let her down easy. You can't avoid hurting someone when you reject them. It's normal to feel bad when you are turned down. But I think to ease the let down you can't be a total ass off about it. You just need to calmly talk to them and tell them you aren't interested. But you can also tell them you can still be friends to be easier on her...
Well, I feel that he's not interested in me anymore. But why would he still go out with me if I invite him (just us 2)? Why does he look so happy when he actually hangs out with me? But then don't ever call me and seem distant? have I made myself a convenience for him? We only hang out as friends for now and he pays most of the time (he's jobless). So, he just wants my attention? I'm so lost.
It is difficult if the relationship was more serious, I think that the only way to let her down easily is to make her fall out with you, so it is as if she dumped you in effect.
Hmm.. isn't this a bit coward-ish...? I have a friend who is in that kind of relationship... and it seems like as long as he doesn't say anything, she'll still try anything to save the relationship. When he already told her I do have fun with you but I do not see us having a future together on several occasions.
You are right that it is cowardly but in my experience it can at least lighten the blow. If this approach fails then I can't see any other option but to be direct. If the girl is showered with attention by the guy then there is a good chance that he does want to be in a relationship with her. In general, I think if a person wants to break up with you then you know about it.
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