My ex boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up 8 months ago, we did really love each other. But we had a terrible fight and we decided I would leave. we reunite on the same night and say how much we love each other.
but the next day I left the house with a letter (we were periodically leaving together) which I think it did take badly, as he went silent for a couple of days. I ask him to return some of my stuff and he wanted to give it to me, but i asked him to leave it at a friend of mine as i did not wanted to see him. He took him 2 days to reply that he would do, but was clearly upset inside.
after a week i went to see him to apologize that I hate us being in feud. he was cold , but in the end he kissed me, hug me ; he was sad and hurt. but says he would do with it, that we will manage this, that it will be fine now.
that was the last time I saw him as he would say he was busy all he time and growing distant. finally after 3 weeks , i had enough, and out of rage texted him that obviously he don't care about me anymore and apparently wanting me to to end our story myself for him to not feel bad and that i wish him well for the future.
he never replied.
and so am I now.
I moved on , and started to want to date, although nothing happened , as my ex was so special that no one can beat him really. I forget about him as I have to.. but now it's been two weeks that i think about him. I love him, there was still lots of love here, i wonder if it's my fault..
also I saw him once in the street 7 months ago he looked really upset and hurt and pretend not seen me.
I know he is my soulmate, i want him back and would like to send an email, but how to start guys?
We are 30 and 39 years old (him)
thank you very much !!
He is a lot of a relationship phobia, already it took us 6 months prior our relationship to get him to get into (While he actually pursue me, and always has) But now, it seems he is doing the same, which is pretty annoying.
"I could delete all of that, and simply says "yeah would be great to see you" but no i won't delete it , i will send you this long letter/essay, and annoy you , make you laugh/cry with craziness "
I don't know I feel he is scared , but in the meantime , he has replied to me so quickly , i mean 2 hours after, that I feel he haven't really weight it , and so maybe just want to use me as you said.
Most Helpful Guy
Well I dont know , it kinda feels to late to do that , but than again they say that its never to late. Now it kinda is your fault duo to that stupid rage text and saying to someone who was there for 2 year that he doesn't care... a bit stupid , but understandable , I think we all were there at one point. The best email would be a sincere one , from your heart and the best that I can offer to you is that when you make that letter to post it here so I could read it and maybe help to rearrange it a bit. And advice would be... definitely dont accuse him or attack him for anything... anyway , wish you luck.
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Most Helpful Girl
I would love to help but my relationship with my ex feel apart and kicks me to live on the streets while I am sick with cancer. The only thing that came out of this for me is negative. All I can say is are you either scared, lonely, or just picturing that your relationship was good because you because your not with him. Break down why you left in the first place vs the reason why you want him back. Me I didn't get a chance to think and never got a explanation why this happened. So I want something better for you both
Stop to think if you really want him back or you both could get hurt.