He said to me last night that there's no passion in the relationship since we don't have sex often anymore and I'm not really affectionate towards him and that if I care about us and want our relationship to continue I should go see a doctor and sort myself out. I explained that there's no magic pill that will instantly make me happy again, it takes time and I think it's perfectly normal for someone to be down about losing someone close to them and as for the sex it's something that will come back over time. He said he had no patience left, I could be lying about how I feel, made out that I'm heartless and thought we should split.
I'm really down about this since I cared so much about him and thought better of him. I don't really know if this is a question, I needed somewhere to vent since I'm so hurt.