So my ex & I broke up 3 months ago I have posted here about the brake up before & what all happened. So I emailed her because that's the only way I have to contact her just to ask how she was doing she replied "hey :) I've been doing good have had a LOT to keep me busy this semester lol. Yourself?" I don't know what to say I'm really want to ask her to meet up for lunch somewhere but since she said she has a lot going on I don't know if I should it scares me the thought of her shooting me down since I'm still not over her I've been on several dates since we broke up but all I keep thinking of is her. Does it sound like she might want me back? What should I say to her? & should I try getting her back? All my friends & family say I'm better off without her.
Was this a bad idea? What do I say?
What Girls Said 1
Your friends and family know you better than you know about yourself. So, listen to them once. You "HAVE" to move on dude. You can't just sit around and wait for some miracle to happen. Just go out with friends and family time. distract your mind whenever you think about her. there's a reason you guys broke up. Okay? THERE'S NO GOING BACK NOW. WHAT'S GONE IS GONE FOREVER.3
What Guys Said 1
Answering your questions directly
Does it sound like she might want me back? Based soley of that response no she doesn't.
What should I say to her? I think the best thing you could do is not even respond for a couple of reasons like the convo won't go that far and might be a little awkward making things worse if you ever did wanted to get her back. You will look alpha, look like your doing just fine with out her, and she might even think about you.
should I try getting her back?
Everything In life happens for a reason, and even if you don't believe this mantra you have to put yourself first and move on for your own sake. She sounds like a girl who has moved on but don't worry man there are SO many more girls out there. Trust me once you find someone else that you like even a little bit you are going to forget about this girl 100%. Its not healthy to live in the past anyway, you only have one life, one youth , so live it to the fullest not wondering about what if's.1
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