Most Helpful Guy
I could probably use more information in order to accurately determine what is going on here. I will say this though, highly westernized feminized women are not attractive to many western men presumably because of their attitude.
If you act like you don't need a man of that they are not beneficial to you then you can probably safely bet they will be less inclined to be around you. It also depends on your type. If your type is dominant masculine males and you constantly act stubborn then they are probably going to grow very tired of you very quickly and pursue a woman that is more submissive.
Such is life.
Most Helpful Girl
Please never compare yourself to anyone. He's not a good guy for saying such a thing so why would you want to be with him? They are human just like you and if the guy is going to discriminate, let him but you are you and sure as hell matter. You need to build up your self worth. What they think of you doesn't matter. Its what you think of yourself that does.