I want to speak to my ex boyfriend to try and be friends because that is what he wanted but when I text he is blunt with me? And he suggested being friends but don't text me or anything? What should I do to make him open up to me and make him realise we can be friends even though I'm by over him?
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You can try to be friends with him and see where leads you. I've read a lot stories about people trying to be friends with there exes and it just doesn't work out. Its a difficult transition when you go from having someone that was in your life everyday to someone who you barely see at all. It takes a while to adjust ot being friends, and plus you two have to make sure you set boundaries and make sure you two are on the same page with being friends. I personally wouldn't recommend being friends with him, it just makes things awkward. I tried it in my last relationship it just made things weird so I just cut it off. Be patient and just give it time, maybe it'll work you never know. If he doesn't want to try to initiate a friendship with you then that's his loss. What's the point of putting in your effort if he won't do the same. But all in all its up to you, if you feel comfortable with it and you are completely over him then I say go for it. If you don't feel so comfortable with it then try to cut off contact with him for a while and see where that goes.0