I am a single mother to two children aged 10 and 8 their father left us when my youngest was 2. He has totally cut them out of his life. He has a new gf and a baby aged 2. I have struggled on my own, but managed to provide a happy safe, secure family life for us.
I don't hate my ex, but i feel so hurt if i see him with his toddler and gf. My friends think i am crazy for not hating him. I do love and miss him.
I can' t be angry or hate him. I don't know why. Am i strange for not feeling hatred toward him?
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He gave you the two most precious gifts you could ever have gotten: your kids. I'm sure there's a part of you that is very thankful for him for that. But being he is not in your life or your kids life and you don't hate him means you're a better person than he is. You may not hate him but let me ask this, if he wanted you back, would you take him back?1
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