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Definitely insecurity on her part and trust issues. A little controlling too. She's still friends with her exes because you trust her, but doesn't trust you to do the same. Maybe you gave her a reason to feel this way? Maybe you're too flirty? I don't know. All I know is, you need to have a talk with her and set an ultimatum. Either you can also continue staying in touch with your exes as she's doing, or she too must end all contact. Quite frankly, I think you both need to let go of your exes. Too much drama and too much confusion and too much endless possibilities. They are an ex for a reason.