Me and my girl lives with each other but she doesn't trust me with my exs, she personally blocked them and always goes on my phone to look through myessages all the time and tells me if I ever speak to my exs she'd leave me, BUT she still talk to most of her exs and going to see her recent one that broke her heart for closure and going regardless if I say no.
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Definitely insecurity on her part and trust issues. A little controlling too. She's still friends with her exes because you trust her, but doesn't trust you to do the same. Maybe you gave her a reason to feel this way? Maybe you're too flirty? I don't know. All I know is, you need to have a talk with her and set an ultimatum. Either you can also continue staying in touch with your exes as she's doing, or she too must end all contact. Quite frankly, I think you both need to let go of your exes. Too much drama and too much confusion and too much endless possibilities. They are an ex for a reason.1