We were together for 1.5 years & broke up 10 months ago.. I thought I was totally recovered by now. However a mutual friend just told me he started dating 1 of her friends literally right after we broke up, and that he's thinking of proposing to her sometime in the near future. When I heard this I went to the bathroom & cried.. I was so shocked at myself b/c I thought i was over the breakup.
I couldn't help thinking of the last things he told me (I was job hunting at the time). He said stuff like he couldn't ever marry me b/c since it was taking me so long to find a full-time job that meant "I would never make a capable wife who could financially support the family." He also said I had too many health problems including insomnia (I did have quite a few problems last year, but that's out of my control!). I just keep beating myself up by comparing myself to this new girl, and wondering how he could've moved on so fast when it took me so long to recover. I've been a teary wreck (doesn't help i'm still single) & my family thinks I'm going crazy. Is it normal to hurt so badly about this news?
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after 10 months he thinks marriage is a good option?1