ill make this simple... i got cheated on for about 7 to 8 months not knowing after catching her. I get yelled at i get the "its your fault" thing.. you know when cheaters blame you for everything and bring up all the negative things and never the positive. So i see them both everyday at work.. and its hard for me to aviod them.. the guy do the same thing i did with her.. take her to work, sit at the same lunch table i used to sit.. now i sit in my cold car at night (2nd shift) and eat becuase i want to avoid them. everybody knows. about it.. im embarrassed..
we both move from another state to start a fresh.. and now that she lefted me for him im all alone in this state that i have no idea whats good and no friends that i can trust and no family. So im living alone in my 1 bedroom apt that we was living in.. If i wasn't in love with her i wouldn't be in this horrible pain.. Im a gamer, im usually at home.. but now that im alone and in a state that i dont know anything about im at home a lot more than ever.. I would go out when i was with her. somewhat because we both didn't know about this state and we was saving up our money etc..
so how do i get through this pain? what should i do? its hard to trust any girl now.. oh well..
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She moved on so its time for you to move on... definitely start dating she's no good anyways she cheated on you dont you think you deserve better there so many great woman out there i went through something similar and it was hard to let go it took me 5 whole years to get over my ex he's married now with kids and he lives directly around the corner from me ! i felt he was the only guy for me until i realized he has truly moved on and that he was happy with someone else i tried counsling and everything then i finally decided to start dating different guys joined a bowling league and met the love of my life and im engaged now it takes time but once you realize that she's your past and that you deserve someone whos faithful and find a hobby that you would like and meet new people things will get better things like this happen all the time to so many people its hard and damaging to the heart but you love you more i hope so best thing to do for you is just move on be happy for her at least she actually sticking with him... i hope. Hang in there there's a special someone out there for you but for now focus on you and everything else will surely fall in place god bless!1