seriously? i haven't done it before and me and this guy broke up for the first time after we dated 3 months almost TWO YEARS ago now, and each time i try get over him and end up going back to him. I've tried not talking to him, I've tried seeing other people, and i always just end up back with him. its been almost two years of this.
he's the first guy I've ever really cared about and this time we haven't had any super bad fights or anything, its just circumstances, but i NEED to move on, but honestly, am feeling lost as to how :(
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The definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expect different results. If you really want to, you can move on. Just stop seeing him. I think you are afraid of being alone; part of you doesn't want to start over. You said you tried to see people, but it's hard to go back to dating when you are guarded and not giving these guys the full range of opportunity. Delete his number, delete all of his contacts, and tell him to leave you alone.0