Most Helpful Guy
I just don't understand women who would put up with any guy that has cheated on him in the past or was abusive in any way.
There has to be other options... why would you even consider it. You may be in love with him, but if he cheats... he was never in love with you?2
Most Helpful Girl
This all comes down to self respect. You know how he makes you feel and you know that it is bad for you, but you are drawn to him and can't explain why.
What you need to do is understand what is best for you and feels right in the long run--which you know, deep down, is living a life without him. You need to understand that you will go through a period of pain when you stop seeing him, but that you have to do it for yourself. Really, if you are willing to love yourself enough, you will end it and go through that withdrawal period. Remember "the best way out is always through"1