I was dating this guy for almost four months and he broke up with me on Thursday and he said that he wanted to see me as a friend and so on. I asked him what's the reason, he didn't give me a reason and then some harsh words was exchanged by both of us. Then he said that he didn't feel like talking and I haven't talked to him since then.
He hasn't deleted me from Facebook but I caved in today and sent him a message asking if he was still mad at me. He has seen the message and been on Facebook several times since I sent the message but he won't reply, it's like I didn't mean anything to him which hurts.
I don't understand why he wants to remain friends and keeps me on Facebook (one time he said that when he doesn't want to keep a person in his life he deletes and blocks that person, so they won't be able to contact him. He hasn't even blocked me on instant messaging apps) but he doesn't want to talk to me. I'm just so confused. He was so sweet and caring before Thursday and he always replied to my messages.
Why do you guys act like a**holes when they get what they want? I mean seriously, how is it possible to stop caring for a person you saw regularly and talked to everyday for four months just like that and become so heartless and cold?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you have it back words, he's hurting too and trying to figure out how he feels about you. He hasn't blocked you, because he's still wanting to be friends, but hasn't contacted you yet because he is still sorting through his feelings. Give him time, guys hurt too, but guys deal with it differently. With drawing and reevaluating is a typical guy behavior for emotional pain.0
Most Helpful Girl
It is not something specific to men.
A break up is a break up, it's never something happy. Sometimes, you break up just because you feel like it isn't going anywhere and you don't see yourself in a relationship with the person so you end it.
As for harsh words, it's pretty common when you break up with someone.
Also, about his attitude? he's not going to act like before because it's not like before. Being friend with an ex is rare, it doesn't happen often and is probably awkward. He's not going to care and be sweet like when you were together obviously.0
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