Most Helpful Girl
maybe yes she is trying to push you away because if she loves you and wants you she wouldn't tell you to wait for a year or two especially if you were in a relationship already I suggest you ask her to tell what she really has in her mind and whatever it is you will respect her and continue as nothing has happened.
Most Helpful Guy
She is all business and economics with you, friend.
To put it mildly, she no longer prioritizes being with you, which is evident in her efforts to avoid any talks that addresses your feelings, your mutual past together, or reuniting with you.
Her language towards you is laced with talks of "me, myself, and I." And the fact that she is willing to risk losing you to someone else is speaks volumes.
Face your fears. Let it go. Head for the exists. Move forward.