He broke up with me last month because he thought one of my colleagues was flirting with me and he got angry when I said my colleague was not flirting. I told him even if my colleague was flirting it doesn't matter because I would never do anything, I'm committed to my boyfriend and it really doesn't matter. He's attractive too and gets hit on a lot by other girls and I told him that.. but it didn't bother me because I knew if I let it bother me it would ruin our relationship.
So he broke up with me anyway, through text, wouldn't respond to my phone calls and refused to speak to me. I was really hurt and upset but after a couple of weeks I knew it was best for me because he was a manipulative, childish jerk.
Yesterday I was at the same store as him and i walked right by him and ignored him. I didn't think we should speak especially after the way he broke up with me. but then he came over to me to sat hi... I didn't want to speak to him and i told him we didn't have to.. he said he'd like to at least be civil and say hi.. so I said "hi" and walked away. I heard him say "that was awkward"
Anyway I usually won't talk to exes after bad breakups... but what do you people do?
- pretend I don't know him/her and completely ignore him/her
- Say "Hi" only if he/she crosses my path and i can't avoid it
- Say "hi" if he/she comes over to say hi
- go out of my way to say "hi" and make small talk
- tell him/her to fuck off
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Alright get this. My ex left me for some fuck boy on new years. I saw it coming so I was already making friends with this other chick but anyway her and her bf break up.
She had some of my shit mostly comics and 3 months later she hits me up to give me stuff back. She takes me out to lunch and I pretend to be interested and smile make good eye contact and at the end of the date she asked me if wanted to hangout again and I said I have a girlfriend and it crushed her I could tell by the way her smile instantly dissolved. I had a fat ass grin on my face because it felt good smashing that bitch. Got her hopes up then fucked her over hard.
But if he broke up with you and over text then ignored you he is a fat pussy and you did the right thing by snubing him. Good things happen to good people.
Oh yeah and in the end of my story that girl I made friends with became my girlfriend and she is the best thing that ever happend to me and on top of being best gf she is a model too. I'm so lucky and happy.
I hope you find a bad ass guy to be your boyfriend