So my ex texted me wanting to be on cool terms. He wanted a strong friendship with me and told me he didn't want to lose me as a friend. We dated for about 2 years. He called me beautiful, as in what's new with you, beautiful? It's been a month since we broke up. A couple days later I texted him for clarity and we did for a while. I told him something and his reply was I couldn't tell and I didn't understand what he meant by that so I asked and he didn't want to tell me. So I told him why would he want to be friends with me if he can't tell me something as simple as that, I just didn't understand what he meant by that and we didn't really argue but kinda did. Not really. Like I was just questioning him and all that. I told him you can't just be friends with someone you're so in love with and his reply was why are you even in love with me anymore? And I told him I guess guys get over girls a lot quicker than girls get over guys. Look you got over me already within a couple of days probably less and he said who ever said I was over you? and I said no one but your actions prove it. You don't hate me nor do you love me. Like a girlfriend at least. And he said you can't go by my actions.
I don't know what this means, has he not gotten over me yet? I don't understand. I know he's not trying to play me because he's not that type. He's a really great guy and treated me very well and I broke up with him out of hurt, anger I don't know and I regret it because I love him and I know I deserve that. He said he hopes my future boyfriend will treat me better and he hopes someone treats me as good as he did. He thinks he was a sucky boyfriend but when we were together I always told him he was the best boyfriend ever.
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I thinj he's not over you but he's also not looking to get together1