Most Helpful Guy
You are your own person, and it sounds like you are becoming unhappy. I would try and tell him that you will be there for him and you support him BUT that you want a serious stable future. There won't be one the way you two are going, and just tell him that your there to support him but if he doesn't even try to then you need to reconsider this relationship. You shouldn't sacrifice your future with a stable partner if he doesn't have his shit together. He may need to grow up a bit and may need to be single to do so...
Most Helpful Girl
Dump him, sweetie, he is only going to get worse and the older he gets, the Worse He will Get Because-------Doing what he wants is fine but what about needs first.
He is this anchor who is bring ing you down to his sinking level and if you continue with him, you will only sink to the bottom with him. He is not interested in working and as long a he even has you as a life line or life boat, his Enabler, he doesn't feel he has to make any efforts or be a 'Success right now.'
He is not happy with himself, happy with the both of you because he is in this routine rut in his life.
You deserve better so while the year is still young, give Little Boy Blue a shove and a send off and tell him to blow his horn to someone Who------Stays out and plays poker til one or two.
Good luck. xx