My gf broke up with me today because I just forgot to tell her that I had fallen asleep and that she has been waiting for my text message. I think its really stupid and she talked shit about me like telling me that I was dumb and ugly. We've been for almost 2 years, and we had lots of plans for the future and now I think that it will just be a thing of the past. We have been quarelling for almost 2 weeks but yesterday we were good together. There are times that I just dont feel needed by her and that I have to do the first move in texting whatsoever. Also, I just dont feel special around her, she takes me for granted and ignores my feelings, whenever I open up about our problems in our relationship she just tells me to cut your drama. She didn't even give a a gift on my birthday ( I'm not expecting it but thats what girlfriends do) and also didn't greet me on Valentine's day and Christmas. And she has been cold to me and unaffectionate. Im really having a hard time. Pls help me what to. What will be the best decision?
- Be patient and try more.Vote A
- Break up with her.Vote B
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You sound like you both have needs that weren't being met and different values. Try to understand that it means you weren't right for each other and don't let her negative words change how you see yourself. If she treated you badly then she didn't care very much for you or value your feelings, is that the kind of person you want to be with? Accept who she actually is and don't think about who you would like her to be ok, and it will help you see the reality of the situation and move on.1
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