how to get over an ex and a break up?
Most Helpful Girl
There is not easy way out, its just time. Acting like they don't exist helped me a lot. And also cutting off all contact with them helps just as much. If you have his number delete & block it. If you have him on social media delete him and block him. If he gave you anything throw it away. I look at a break up as a learning experience. You are one step closer to your one true love. I took the time to just focus on myself and I tried to use that as a distraction. Take out the things you didn't like and then put down the things you did like in your relationship. It could take weeks, or months, or even up to a year but its worth it in the end, trust me. It took me about, 5-8 months. You'll feel broken for some time but as the weeks go by it gets so much more easier. Distract yourself and hang out with your friends, go out and meet new people but don't start dating just yet, give yourself time to heal. Just be patient and let time take its course. But avoiding all contact with them is really effective and it helps a lot.0